Many people say that relationships are complicated. However, I feel that it is us humans who make it complicated or complex. Any relationship can be simple provided there are no unrealistic expectations from them. Once you have expectations from a relationship it is bound to end up being complex.
The moment you stop expecting things to happen everything will fall in place and being oneself solves most of the issues. That is the expectation one should set while beginning a relationship and not have expectations instead from the other person.
As we get older we begin to understand more about relationships and what we actually want from our partner. Sometimes we have heard people tell us take all the time to know the other person before getting into a serious relationship. And we would have also heard that years and years of knowing each other isn't good enough to keep people together.
We can either like or dislike a person but that should be only after a decent period of time i.e. quality time spent together. Being possessive beyond a certain extent is also harmful to any relationship and at the same time not being possessive at all can cause issues.
In a relationship it is difficult to define one's space and since its subjective there is no standard for the same. I believe in respecting one's space in a relationship cause everyone has their likes/ dislikes. No two people are the same so its unfair to expect the other person to adapt to your lifestyle completely or to whatever extent you want them to adapt themselves.
Oh yes, the clinging types can surely get on your nerves. More often than not I've observed people being insecure who cling a lot to their partners. This is just my observation and I could not be right in all the cases :-) But yes the clinging types do get on my nerves.
So after having had this discussion with several friends of mine I know for sure that it us who make things complicated and its not the relationships that do :-)
Thank you for taking time to read!
Sunday, March 29, 2009
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