Out of my experience I have come across men who find you approachable to have a conversation assume that its easy to get whatsoever they want out of you. And, when that doesn't happen people start making up stories which can be very creative. So typical are the stories which they share with other guys or gals or whatever :-)
They even go to an extent of damaging a woman's character to just satisfy their ego. For any man who approaches a woman it could either be that he just wants to have fun or is looking at spending his life with her. More often than not its just for having a good time. Believe me no man would really think of actually wanting to know a woman without any agenda on mind. Heard this from a few friends that I have and are married now. So, they really dont mind talking about it :-)
So, the other day I was watching Ellens and completely believe in "Act like a lady, think like a man", when in situations of a man approaching you for a conversation .... lol.
I disagree on this one.. yes its true that most men think this way but then those are the despo types who have never had a woman in their lives.
ReplyDeleteThe part on men approaching a woman for some reason applies to women also.. they too once approached continue to interact with the man for some reason rt?
Sometimes its just that women are not ready to accept the fact that men can be just wanting to be friends.
Mushi, I'm glad we had a long discussion on the same and I meant in cases when men find women in vulnerable phases they are bound to take advantage. At that point in time the woman is just looking at some support and later realizes that she is being taken for granted.
ReplyDeleteAnd, you can be friends with guys, I'm not denying.
There are exceptions to any rule and there are some really nice men out there. Similarly not saying that all women are taken for granted. I have come across some very manipulative people from both genders & shall probably write another post on the same.