I was watching Ellen tday and the author of a book spoke about what exactly goes on in a guy's mind when he is talks to a woman. It was pretty interesting when he said that they either "play" or "plan".
It was awesome when he spoke about the reasons behind a man approaching a woman. He mentioned that the only two reasons could be that he would want to fool around or plan a future with this woman since he obviously finds something interesting in her. And most women would misinterpret this as just another friendship. Yeah, probably I don't feel too bad like yesterday as I did get perspective from another guy who is a good friend of mine. And watching Ellen today was like reassuring about how men generally think.
Wow, it is amazing how much one could discover and learn from life and relationships. And the best part was when the author on Ellens mentioned that it is always good to have a probationary period of 90 days for any relationship. Its truly amazing as time has the answer to all the questions.